MatchIdeal

Marriage matching for every faith, in every country

Three matches.
Chosen with care.
Time to decide.

Every member is verified with ID and a selfie. You complete one detailed profile, our AI checks it against every member in both directions, and you get the three people who fit you best. No feed and no swiping.

  • 3matches per round
  • 7 daysto decide on each
  • 18 faithsplus non-religious
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Yusuf A., 32

Manchester, United Kingdom

Faith
Muslim · Sunni
Work
Civil engineer

ID · selfie · photos verified

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Daniel O., 30

Lagos, Nigeria

Faith
Christian · Catholic
Work
Paediatric nurse

ID · selfie · photos verified

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Arjun M., 31

Toronto, Canada

Faith
Hindu · Vaishnava
Work
Data analyst

ID · selfie · photos verified

Illustration: a round for a member open to all faiths

How it works

One careful profile. Three people worth meeting.

MatchIdeal is for people who want to marry, not browse. It takes longer to join than a dating app, so the matches you get are better.

  1. 1

    Get verified

    Photos, a live selfie and a government ID, checked by Stripe Identity. Nobody is matched until they pass.

  2. 2

    Tell us properly

    About 25 minutes, or a few minutes if you let our AI fill the form from your own description.

  3. 3

    Get your three

    Your requirements are checked against everyone, and theirs against you, then the best fits are ranked.

  4. 4

    One at a time

    Your three open one by one, best fit first, with seven days for each. No feed, no bingeing.

  5. 5

    Meet, with family if you like

    When you both say yes, photos unlock and you can talk. A guardian can receive a copy of every message.

The matching

How your three are chosen

Two stages. First, hard requirements are checked in both directions: yours against them, and theirs against you. Everyone who passes is then scored out of 100, and the top three are yours.

Stage 1 · Checked both ways

  • Who you’d like to marry
  • Age range
  • Faith preference
  • Marital status
  • Children
  • Minimum education
  • Smoking and alcohol
  • Where they live or would move

We never match on caste, skin colour or ethnicity, and there are no filters for them. Faith is matched only as far as you ask it to be.

Stage 2 · Scored out of 100

  • Faith and practiceFaith, branch, how practising25
  • Life plansChildren, timing, home, work20
  • Values and lifestyleFamily outlook, diet, smoking, alcohol20
  • CharacterShared interests and personality20
  • BackgroundEducation, language, location15

Bar length is to scale; the longest bar is 25 points. Your must-haves add up to 9 bonus points, and the score is averaged from your side and theirs. It is a guide to start a conversation, not a verdict.

Faiths

Every faith has its own questions

Choose a tab to see what we ask. You decide how much faith matters in a partner, from same faith only to open to all.

Open to everyone

Every faith, one standard

Choose your own faith, or none, and then decide how much it matters in a partner: same faith only, same faith preferred, open to all, or a short list you pick. Faith is something you can match on. It is never used to keep anyone out.

Start your profile

Asked of everyone

  • Your faith and how practising you are
  • How you would raise children
  • Diet and observance that shape daily life

Faith

Islam

Choose Sunni, Shia, Sufi or simply Muslim. You can add a wali or guardian who receives a copy of your messages, and keep photos hidden until you both say yes.

Start a profile with this faith

Questions we add

  • How often you pray
  • Halal diet
  • Whether to involve a wali

Branches you can choose

SunniShiaSufiJust MuslimOther

Faith

Christianity

From Catholic and Orthodox to Evangelical and Pentecostal. Tell us how often you go to church and whether a church wedding matters to you.

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Questions we add

  • Denomination
  • Church attendance
  • Church wedding

Branches you can choose

CatholicProtestantOrthodoxAnglicanEvangelicalPentecostalCopticOther

Faith

Hinduism

Horoscope matching is optional: mark it as required, nice to have, or not needed. We do not ask about caste or skin colour, and you cannot filter by them.

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Questions we add

  • Horoscope matching
  • Rashi (optional)
  • Vegetarian diet

Branches you can choose

VaishnavaShaivaShaktaSmartaISKCONOther

Faith

Buddhism

Theravada, Mahayana, Vajrayana, Zen or Pure Land. Share how meditation fits into your week.

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Questions we add

  • Tradition
  • Meditation practice
  • Diet

Branches you can choose

TheravadaMahayanaVajrayanaZenPure LandOther

Faith

Sikhism

Tell us whether you are Amritdhari, Keshdhari or Sahajdhari, and how important an Anand Karaj ceremony is to you.

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Questions we add

  • Amritdhari status
  • Keeping kesh
  • Anand Karaj

Branches you can choose

AmritdhariKeshdhariSahajdhari

Faith

Judaism

Orthodox to secular. Kosher and Shabbat observance are asked directly, because they shape daily life together.

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Questions we add

  • Denomination
  • Kosher
  • Shabbat

Branches you can choose

OrthodoxConservative / MasortiReformReconstructionistSecular / cultural

Faith

Bahá’í Faith

Bahá’í marriage needs the consent of living parents, so we ask whether your parents already know about your search.

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Questions we add

  • Parents’ awareness
  • Community life
  • Diet

Faith

Jainism

Śvetāmbara or Digambara. Jain diet is asked directly, including whether you avoid root vegetables.

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Questions we add

  • Sect
  • Jain diet
  • Observance

Branches you can choose

ŚvetāmbaraDigambara

Faith

Zoroastrianism

For Parsi, Irani and other Zoroastrians. Tell us whether your Navjote or Sedreh-pushi has been done.

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Questions we add

  • Community
  • Navjote / Sedreh-pushi
  • Observance

Branches you can choose

ParsiIraniOther

Faith

Shinto

Share how shrine visits and festivals fit your life, and whether a shrine wedding matters to you.

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Questions we add

  • Practice
  • Festivals
  • Ceremony

Faith

Taoism

Zhengyi, Quanzhen or personal practice. Share how temple life and festivals fit into your year.

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Questions we add

  • Tradition
  • Practice
  • Festivals

Branches you can choose

ZhengyiQuanzhenOther

Faith

Chinese traditional religion

Ancestor veneration, festivals and family rites. Tell us how these shape your home life.

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Questions we add

  • Ancestor rites
  • Festivals
  • Family involvement

Faith

African traditional religions

Yoruba, Akan, Igbo, Vodun, Zulu, Candomblé and more. Elders and family often take part, and you can involve them from the start.

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Questions we add

  • Tradition
  • Family and elder involvement
  • Ceremony

Branches you can choose

Yoruba (Ifá / Òrìṣà)AkanOdinani (Igbo)VodunZulu traditionalCandombléOther

Faith

Indigenous spiritualities

Name your nation or community if you wish, in your own words. Ceremony and family can be part of the process.

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Questions we add

  • Community (optional)
  • Ceremony
  • Family involvement

Faith

Spiritism

Share how study groups and centre life fit into your week.

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Questions we add

  • Practice
  • Community
  • Values

Faith

Cao Đài

Share how temple practice and family rites shape your life.

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Questions we add

  • Practice
  • Diet
  • Family

Faith

Rastafari

Nyabinghi, Bobo Shanti, Twelve Tribes or your own path. Ital diet is asked directly.

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Questions we add

  • Mansion
  • Ital diet
  • Practice

Branches you can choose

NyabinghiBobo ShantiTwelve TribesOther

Faith

Paganism

Wicca, Druidry, Heathenry and other paths. Tell us whether a handfasting ceremony matters to you.

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Questions we add

  • Path
  • Handfasting
  • Practice

Branches you can choose

WiccaDruidryHeathenryOther

Faith

Spiritual, not religious

For people with a spiritual life outside any one religion. Values and life plans carry most of the weight.

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Questions we add

  • Practice
  • Values
  • Openness to a partner’s faith

Faith

No religion

Atheist, agnostic or humanist. Choose whether you want a partner who is also non-religious, or are open to a partner of faith.

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Questions we add

  • Outlook
  • Partner’s faith
  • Raising children

Branches you can choose

AtheistAgnosticHumanist

Pricing

Pay for fewer, better matches

Joining, verifying and completing your profile is free, and other members can be matched with you. You pay to receive your own matches.

First Three

€10one-off

  • Full profile and verification
  • Three matches, checked both ways
  • Seven days to decide on each
  • Buy another round any time
Get my three
For a serious search

Weekly Three

€20per week

  • Three new options every week
  • New members join all the time; we search again each week
  • Update your details any week and we re-run
  • People you’ve seen never repeat
  • Cancel any time
Start weekly

Coins for extras

Each round gives you 3 options. To see an extra match, or to reveal someone outside your 3 who liked you, use coins:

  1. 4th€5
  2. 5th€5
  3. 6th and each after€10

Liking someone is always free. One at a time on purpose, so you never end up with a pile of profiles to skim.

Optional

Write your requirements with an expert

Clear requirements lead to better matches. A trained matchmaker helps you write down what you actually need, separates must-haves from preferences, and checks your profile reads the way you mean it.

Request an expert

€200 one-off

  • 1A 60-minute video call in your language, with family present if you like
  • 2Your partner requirements and profile rewritten with you, and agreed before they go live
  • 3A review after your first three, with one round of changes

Why it works this way

Built for marriage, not browsing

Three, not three hundred

A short list gets read properly. Each person gets your full attention, and you get theirs.

Verified, every member

Government ID and a live selfie, checked by Stripe Identity before anyone appears in a match.

Fit in both directions

You only see people whose requirements you meet too. No one-sided matches.

Your data, protected

Profiles, messages and photos are encrypted. Download or delete everything from your account at any time.

Questions

Do I have to choose a religion?

No. Choose “No religion” or “Spiritual, not religious”, and set how much a partner’s faith matters to you.

Who can see my photos?

By default, nobody. Photos stay hidden until you and a match both say yes. You can choose to show them to people you’re matched with instead.

What happens after I like someone?

Liking is free. If they like you back, it’s a match: photos unlock and you can talk. If you’re not one of their 3 options, they see that someone likes them and can reveal you with coins. Either way, it’s their choice.

What if none of my three feel right?

Tell us why when you pass; it shapes your next round. The right person may simply not have joined yet. On Weekly Three we search again every week as new verified members join, so many people keep searching for several months.

Can my family be involved?

Yes. Add a guardian or chaperone who receives a copy of your messages, or bring family to the expert session.

Who checks my ID, and do you keep it?

Stripe Identity checks your document and selfie. We receive only the result, never a copy of your ID.

Which countries do you cover?

Members can join from anywhere. You decide whether a partner should live in your country, in countries you name, or anywhere in the world.